• Create a Great NickName

Your Nickname or the name that you use on your account has a big effect on whether or not your profile is looked out by potential soul mates. Try not to use nicknames that show you are desperate eg. LonelyLady33, or LoveMePlease as these a generally a turn off for most, however someone may feel sorry for you and give you the benefit of the doubt. But with online dating the idea is to get the most seeks, and having a catchy and fun nickname will certainly increase that interest. Try names that suit you and your interests and show the bublier, brighter side of you eg. BeachBabe, FunSeeker or PlayWithMeNow. Your nickname should stand out and the more flirtatious, sexier and fun it is the greater success you will have.

• List your best Qualities

What are your best qualities? What are your hobbies and interests? What are you looking for in someone else and what do you have to offer? List these down on a piece of paper and expand on these to really show who you are. Use these in exciting descriptions about your self, eg. if you are an outdoors type of person who likes rock climbing, trekking or mountain climbing, use phrases that really emphasize the love of this sport an how you excel. “My friends tell me they can barely keep up with me when we go rock climbing! Are you up for the challenge? “

• Be Honest

Be Honest with your profile, do not try to portray an image of someone you are not. This will only lead to confusion, embarrassment if and when you meet your potential date in person. Describe yourself in a way that will not mislead any potential online mate. Describe your best qualities but do not exaggerate the quality. For eg if you like watching car racing, do not say you are a Car racer!

• Use a Picture in Your Profile

The saying goes that a Picture is worth a Thousand words, how better to dscribe yourself by Posting a great photo of yourself. It is a fact that personal ads on Dating websites do get higher responses than ads with photos. Some websites allow you to post multiple photos of yourself so make the most of that as you will get more attention with more photos of yourself. Always provide a decent closeup of your self and if possible photos of you doing the things you love and have described in your profile.

• Proof Read Your Profile

Make sure your profile reads well and is grammatically correct, this always helps a potential viewer understand you better. Have your close friends or family proofread your profile and give you an Honest opinion on your profile. Make adjustments until you are confident that you have described yourself as best as possible.